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Jul. 2nd, 2009 06:34 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
Here's the thing. When I was a little girl, I never once dreamed about my future wedding.
Never.
I never thought about what kind of dress I'd like, I never thought about what my dream husband would be like, I never thought about flower arrangements or bridesmaids dresses or making sure I'd have something old and something new, something borrowed and something blue.
I did, at one point, think about the excessive cost a wedding is nowadays, especially the dress, but that's about all the concern I put into the matter before college.
I don't really know why the subject never interested me. I've said half-jokingly to my friends that when/if I get married, it's gonna be on a piece of paper in front of a judge and my family isn't even going to know I have a boyfriend until two weeks before the wedding date- just enough time for them to get off of work if they so choose.
Honestly, the only real thoughts I've had about my potential wedding day have been along the lines of how to avoid as much of the hoopla as possible.
...so why in hell am I looking at bridal gowns???
Never.
I never thought about what kind of dress I'd like, I never thought about what my dream husband would be like, I never thought about flower arrangements or bridesmaids dresses or making sure I'd have something old and something new, something borrowed and something blue.
I did, at one point, think about the excessive cost a wedding is nowadays, especially the dress, but that's about all the concern I put into the matter before college.
I don't really know why the subject never interested me. I've said half-jokingly to my friends that when/if I get married, it's gonna be on a piece of paper in front of a judge and my family isn't even going to know I have a boyfriend until two weeks before the wedding date- just enough time for them to get off of work if they so choose.
Honestly, the only real thoughts I've had about my potential wedding day have been along the lines of how to avoid as much of the hoopla as possible.
...so why in hell am I looking at bridal gowns???